Anyone can be a woman but it takes immense efforts to be a lady. You may wonder what is the different between the two terms. According to the dictionary, you might not find much of differences between the same as both terms depict the female gender. However, when it comes to its philosophical meaning, people can write books on it. While a woman is ‘just another female’ you see walking on the road, a lady is someone who captures your vision and remains there for a long time. A woman may hurt you or fight back but a lady knows how she can kill you by her silence. If such words have created a feeling in your heart to transform yourself into a lady, let us present before you these 5 tips to transform yourself:
1) Do not expose much of skin:
Have you ever noticed that men prefer those to be their wives who wear covered clothes and are generally not under the ‘exposing’ influence? No offence but women look much better when they keep themselves covered. Wear clothes that flow along your figure to make them wonder what lies beneath those clothes (if you know what we mean!).
2) Be light on your make-up:
A real lady need not use much of a make-up as elegance matters when you wish to transform yourself from an ordinary woman to a neat and tidy lady. However, if you are addicted to make up and wish to put on your regular lipsticks and mascara, we wouldn’t stop you from using lighter shades. Instead of loud red, wear a subtle pink colored lipstick. Even when it comes to clothes, wear light shades as light make-up gels well with light shades like peach, soft blue, light green, lemon yellow, etc.
3) Keep yourself clean and maintained:
When it comes to being a lady, you need to take special care with regards to cleanliness, right from the tip of your hair to your toenails. Make sure that you bathe at least once a day in order to maintain proper hygiene. Moreover, get rid of any dirt that has stuck between your teeth or under your nails to display your cleanliness to others you meet. Whenever you reach home after a tiring day from work, wash your face, hands and feet, which are general things that more than an average population does not do.
4) Avoid back biting:
A real lady knows how to keep secrets to herself and not be involved in any gossip. Instead, be a gossip to others as there’s only a pinch of truth in gossip and if you have a charming personality, you are surely going to be gossiped about the most at work or in your community. Stop being with those who talk start grapevines at work or in your friend group. Instead, be involved in your own activities. Learn something new every day and spend some time praying, rather than back biting.
5) Watch the way you walk, sit, stand and what you talk:
A lady is someone who knows how to carry herself in the society and how to be different from the regular women others see every day on the roads. She walks in an erect posture with her chin held a little higher as she is a self made woman. When she sits, the world gathers around her to witness her beauty and elegance. She stands straight and does not grab people’s attention just by moving here and there. Moreover, when she talks, she knows she is improving the silence. Every word from her mouth is heart touching and convincing for the ones who listen to her speak. If you wish to be a lady, talk only when it is needed, even if you scream inside your heart. However, this does not mean that you need to suppress your feelings or what you wish to speak. You are surely going to get several opportunities to put forward what you wish to say.