The time comes in everyone’s life when he or she wants to go away from a partner with whom the relationship does not work well at one or another step. Whether you feel loss of understanding and connection in the relationship or something unwanted happened between you that cannot be fix to store warmth of the love, you should not delay in declaring breakup with the partner. No matter, you want to announce divorce or breakup with the partner, surprisingly this disappointing event can also be made lesser painful for both of you by keeping some important things on mind. Check out the 10 good ways mentioned below to leave your lover without hurting more:
1. Respect the love
Make sure during breakup that you explain the true reason which is responsible for spoiling things between you. During the time you tell them the about breaking up, never show disrespect for the love you got from your partner.
2. Treat the lover with fidelity
Even if you are not interested to keep any contact with your partner further, treat them with fidelity and respect. People often take the idea of returning gifts, cards and love letters they received from the partner ever as a custom of breakup but this seems you have no value of the nice time you spent with them and love you received from them. So, please avoid making it more painful.
3. Accept your responsibilities
Always remember that a relationship does not go well it means both of the partners are equally responsible for it, not only one. So, you should accept your parts of responsibilities and avoid blaming to the partner alone.
4. Get a break
Sometimes a relationship becomes unbearably frustrating when multiple small things become a big shock to break up the relation. Also, many people are there to think that it is better to live apart with good memories of togetherness than making things worse by being together. So, you should get a break for your heart and move on if your relationship with someone is not working.
5. Create some space in between
Whether you are living in a happy relationship or you are planning to stay apart from now, you should not forget to maintain space between you and your partner. Even after breakup or divorce, don’t ever try to keep friendship with the partner after the heart breaking event as both of you need space to restore your life at the normal stage.
6. Understand facts and follow them strictly
You should know well that love is the utmost desire of a successful relationship and this is the one and only reason for which you want to live with your partner. If love is no more between you, definitely it’s the time when you should move out from the relation. Also, don’t forget to clear this fact to your partner earlier only that love is the basis of your togetherness.
7. Select the best timing
Definitely the time for breakup cannot be best ever still you should choose the moment to say ‘goodbye’ when your partner can bear that thunderstruck and come out of the situation soon. A simple idea is just to avoid their good time, bad time and busy schedule to break the news of breakup. For instance, don’t wait for their birthday, important projects and failure in the job to declare breakup.
8. Warnings are good
It is good to warn your lover earlier than declaring breakup as he or she will be prepared mentally to go through the tough time if you really break up. Also, let them know that what things can become the reason of breakup I both of yours case.
9. List out the reasons
If you really love your partner, definitely single reason can never become the matter for breaking up the relation. That’s why; you should list out the reasons for which you don’t want to stay more with the one whom you loved deep from the heart ever.
10. Keep yourself ready
You should be ready to pass that unwanted piece of time after your breakup by keeping yourself busy in your hobbies, friends, work and outing. Try to redirect your life towards a new passion and interest. This will help you come out from the situation.